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I have recently been in a spot where I have to figure out if my feelings have actually changed for my partner or if I am just depressed right now and my true feelings are clouded. Sometimes I look at him and I think hes so prescious I dont want him anywhere but beside me and sometimes I think that I want to be alone or with someone that perhaps will better suit me. I worry that he is selfish and he will not outgrow that. I have concerns about him</title>
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I have recently been in a spot where I have to figure out if my feelings have actually changed for my partner or if I am just depressed right now and my true feelings are clouded. Sometimes I look at him and I think hes so prescious I dont want him anywhere but beside me and sometimes I think that I want to be alone or with someone that perhaps will better suit me. I worry that he is selfish and he will not outgrow that. I have concerns about him listening to me in the way that I need to be listened to. We have had several discussions about these needs I have and the thoughts I have about him being selfish. He doesnt agree that he is selfish but his actions show otherwise daily. So I have to wait to see if it changes and feel dissatisfied in the mean time or learn to accept that he is selfish. I dont want to be with someone selfish so that only leaves one option. How do people come to realise that their actions are selfish. I am not here to point out things again and again, I want it to be a self realization because then it is more powerful. But my concern is that he will not have this self-realization. 
Has anyone been in this or a similar spot? Any ideas? Comments? Anything you share would be greatly appreciated. 

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    <pubDate>2006-01-24 15:12:08 GMT</pubDate>
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I am going through something big right now. My core is affected, it is that big. It affects my moods daily, I cannot seem to find much that makes me excited anymore. Ive lost that sparkle in my eyes for life right now. Im doing work that has always been satisfying but right now nothing seems satisfying. I have a dull mood most of the time. Anyone that knows me, will say that I am not myself right now. I dont know how to get out of this right now other than to write abou</title>
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I am going through something big right now. My core is affected, it is that big. It affects my moods daily, I cannot seem to find much that makes me excited anymore. Ive lost that sparkle in my eyes for life right now. Im doing work that has always been satisfying but right now nothing seems satisfying. I have a dull mood most of the time. Anyone that knows me, will say that I am not myself right now. I dont know how to get out of this right now other than to write about it and hope that people can relate and offer words that may help lift this...
Yes, logically it can be said that I am experiencing a slight depression. I need ideas about how to pull myself out of this place. Any ideas are greatly appreciated.



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    <pubDate>2006-01-20 20:45:20 GMT</pubDate>
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